Top 5 Lessons I’ve Learned From My Divorce

Top 5 Lessons I've Learned From My Divorce is a difficult process, especially if you're caught off guard. Some of the lessons I've learned along the way can help you with your situation and get you through this trying time.

Divorce is hard. I'm not saying it was easy for me, but I didn't know what to expect. When I got the final papers from my wife, my whole world turned upside down. The life I knew was gone. My friends were there for me and my kids, but shortly after the final papers were delivered, we all went back to our own lives and our jobs. For the past 8 months I've been through quite a bit of soul searching after my divorce and have come out with some lessons learned that I wanted to share with you today. Here are my top 5: https://legalfacts.org/find-a/family-law-attorney/

Section: You can be happy again.

You can be happy again. In fact, you are happy right now but you're letting things be in your way. So learn how to let go and live in the moment. Here's how you can find happiness in the simplest ways possible.

Bloggers who blog about depression, anxiety, and suicide are often cautioned with comments like "Don't take this so seriously or it will drive you over the edge." which fails to consider that maybe the blogger has already been there. Maybe they're writing a blog post about their experience because maybe — just maybe — it will help someone else who's thinking about suicide or hurting themselves to realize that there's another option besides ending their life. Or maybe they've already considered that, and still want to help other people in order to prevent more of what happened to them from happening to others.

Section: Your kids see everything you don't want them to see.

The Internet is a dangerous place. With websites like Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, and Reddit your kids are exposed to things you don't want them to see. And it's not just adults - many kid-friendly sites have inappropriate material as well. How can you protect your kids? You could ensure they don't have access to a computer, but then they'll find ways around it. You could block all the websites in one fell swoop, but that'd be impossible to undo. When you want to show your friends your new blog.

Section: You may need a new circle of friends.

I've had this blog for about 8 years. While most of the articles are about SEO, I've still kept it separate from my consultancy website. One of the reasons why is because we have a number of non-SEO clients and it helps them to not feel like they're being sold to. It's pretty hard to keep that line when you're running your own site, so everyone here at EF has their own blog on the same platform (so we can't just start a new one). https://legalfacts.org

I've been a little different since I was a kid. Yours truly was not necessarily the funny kid in class, or the one who wanted to be a part of the cool crowd. Instead, I was always the 'smart kid'... Not in the sense that my academics excelled compared to others, but rather I had an innate interest in learning about PoS systems - or any technology for that matter. The thing is, people love to laugh, party and share their life's thoughts and antics with someone they know they can rely on. This is great if you're naturally funny and outgoing. But if you're like me — focused on learning these devices and sharing your learnings with others - then it's going to take time before you find your niche.

Section: You will find real love again.

Yes, I do. Well, actually, I don't really know. This is based off of a vague feeling of optimism and my belief that. There is true love out there for everyone. But, you will find true love again. You will finally meet the one who will understand your sense of humor. The one who you won't feel emotionally exhausted with. The great thing about meeting your perfect match is that they make all of your past experiences worthwhile.

Takeaway: Divorce is hard, but it teaches you some important things about yourself and your life.